Solitude

The sense of solitude is familiar to almost all people. This feeling is very dangerous. It can lead a person to suicidal thoughts. Unfortunately, many people, who experience this feeling rarely underestimate it. Solitude can be provoked by both outer and inner reasons. As for outer reasons, they are the following: the loss of a beloved or dear person, failure at work, problems with career, etc. As for inner reasons, they are usually provoked by some health disturbances or lack of vitamins. Solitude can cause depression, which is a serious illness and should be treated by professional doctors. If you feel solitude, try to cope with this problem yourself. First of all, try to understand the reason of this feeling’s emergence. Then try to think whether it is possible to eliminate the problem, which disturbs you. Solitude is often provoked by lack of communication or absence of friends. Try to find friends, it is not so difficult as it seems. You can find them in the Internet. Fortunately, there are many sites, which can offer you such a wonderful possibility. Many people argue that the Internet swallows up people and one shouldn’t abuse its use. However, if you don’t have friends and experience loneliness because of this fact, you have nothing to lose. This is the way out for you. Don’t neglect it. Always think about radiant future. The only way to cheer up for those, who experience solitude is hope for better life. Follow this example and hope for the better!

Loneliness

Loneliness is a very ambiguous feeling. On the one hand all people agree that it is unbearable and very sad feeling. People can live in society. This is absolutely natural for them and when a person is lonely, he/she experiences lack of communication and interaction with this very society. This deficiency in communication provokes depression and many other mental health disturbances. On the other hand there is a group of people, for whom loneliness is an advantage and it never oppresses them. On the contrary, they are in harmony with themselves and don’t experience any negative emotions. They are accustomed to be alone in this world and they don’t need anyone to live with, to communicate with, to go for a walk with, etc. other people treat these singles with suspicion. Unusual behavior is always strange and makes people keep away from such singles. They don’t suffer from this fact. This is just what they really want. Some of them are misanthropists, others are too reserved and withdrawn, etc. however, neither of these groups of singles suffers from loneliness. People, who can’t live without communication with like-minded persons and those, who prefer to alone constitute two large mega groups of extremes. The majority of people belong to neither of these groups. The truth is somewhere in the middle. Most people experience changes in their mood. They crave for communication at one moment and want to be alone at another. These changes are explained by different reasons. Among them are weather, the time of the day, season, etc. in any case, loneliness can’t be regarded as something absolutely negative. This is a complex feeling, which is vital in small doses.